With many different therapy approaches, it can be difficult to understand their differences and how they support people with anxiety.
By Ryan DeCook, LCSW • Clinically reviewed by Maddie Tong, LCSW
Dealing with anxiety is hard enough. But when you decide to get help, another worry can turn up: How do I choose the right type of therapy or therapist?
It may seem like there are endless options, including CBT, mindfulness, ACT, and EMDR. You might start to wonder: How do I know which is the best option? Will this actually help? What if I waste my time and money while still feeling this way?
As a therapist who specializes in treating anxiety, I often hear these concerns. They’re not a sign that you’re doing something wrong, but that you care about getting better. There is a clearer path forward. Research can help point to the most effective therapy options and modern tools, and therapist directories have made it easier than ever to find a therapist who’s a good fit. Together we’ll explore both.
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Evidence-based therapy is one of the most effective ways to deal with anxiety. It can help reduce intense mental and physical experiences of anxiety and improve your day-to-day functioning.
Generally, anxiety treatments do this in a few main ways. They reframe or create distance from thoughts and beliefs that are causing distress. They create structured steps to face fears and reduce avoidance. Plus, they help teach coping and relaxation skills that can reduce the intensity of anxiety and bring more calm to the body. People who engage in therapy for anxiety tend to have a new relationship with their thoughts, more relaxation in the body, and more ability to tolerate anxiety when it does arise.
Anxiety disorders are common in the U.S. About 34% of people will experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. Yet, research shows individuals with anxiety can be responsive to treatment. There are benefits to CBT and related therapies whether you struggle with generalized anxiety, social anxiety, specific phobias, or panic disorder.
It’s not just the hard data that supports the impact of anxiety treatment. Client experiences support it, too. “I was scared of getting sick, getting stranded, driving, flying and more,” one client shared with The Center for Anxiety. “With the help of my therapist, I immediately got to work and tackled every one of my fears. Now the world is open to me and I feel free!”
Research over many years can now give us a picture into the most effective treatments for anxiety disorders such as generalized anxiety disorder, social anxiety disorder, specific phobias, and panic disorder.
CBT is the most well-researched and strongly supported treatment for anxiety disorders. The cognitive part of the treatment helps people identify unhelpful thoughts that fuel their anxiety and avoidance. They learn to examine these thoughts and develop a more balanced perspective, which can reduce the intensity of anxiety and any related physical sensations, as well as shift behaviors that would have otherwise maintained the anxiety.
One component of CBT, specifically when it comes to phobias and avoidance, is called exposure therapy. This is where a therapist helps a client face their fears in a structured, repeated way so that it reduces the fear response over time. With the guidance of a licensed therapist and a client's full consent, there is strong evidence that exposure therapy can effectively help clients manage and even overcome specific fears.
Overall, CBT is widely recommended for anxiety treatment by organizations like the Mayo Clinic and the American Academy of Family Physicians. CBT is best for individuals who want structure, homework activities, and concrete tools.
Many research trials have shown ACT to be similarly effective to CBT for treating anxiety. ACT helps people with anxiety to notice and accept their anxious thoughts and then take actions guided by their values regardless of the fear. This allows them to increase flexibility in their thinking and take steps towards what they truly want in life rather than avoidance. It is useful for someone who resonates with a more mindfulness and values-based approach.
MBCT also shows evidence as a helpful anxiety treatment. Clients are taught mindfulness meditation in combination with CBT skills. They observe their internal experiences (thoughts, emotions, and sensations) without judgment or reacting to those experiences. It helps people with anxiety learn that anxious thoughts are just mental events and not facts, which can reduce ongoing worry. It is useful for someone who is drawn to developing a structured mindfulness practice.
AR, another cognitive-behavioral approach, helps people to recognize their first signs of anxiety and apply relaxation techniques as soon as possible. Skills, such as progressive muscle relaxation, are taught so that they can be applied and reduce the sensations of anxiety that can show up in the body. It targets responses in the nervous system that may show up in anxiety disorders. It’s particularly useful for generalized anxiety and worry‑related muscle tension. AR can benefit someone who wants concrete, body-focused tools and is willing to practice them regularly.
It’s important to note that there are other forms of treatment that have shown some signs of usefulness for anxiety treatment. However, the research base has mixed results or is too small to make formal recommendations. This article highlights the therapy options that have the strongest and most proven research basis.
Even though research has revealed many effective options for treatment, you still have to make the choice about which therapy is best for you. A good starting place is understanding the type of anxiety you struggle with.
Is it based in social settings, more generalized worry, specific phobias, or intense panic attacks? Does the anxiety show up mostly as intense thoughts, avoidant behavior, strong sensations in the body, or all of the above?
For those who struggle with intense thoughts and avoidant behaviors, CBT and ACT are often good options to consider. For those who have intense physical sensations and worry about those sensations, CBT with exposure could be effective. For body tension related to general worry, MBCT and AR could be good options to try.
You want to target the core driving force of the anxiety (thoughts, behaviors, body sensations) with the type of therapy that can provide the most useful response to those components.
Thankfully, you don’t have to figure out all of this on your own. Therapists who specialize in anxiety can help you to identify the components of your anxiety and suggest which method of treatment would be appropriate for what you’re experiencing. And often, therapists use a combined approach with different therapeutic modalities to fit your needs as the patient.
It is essential, then, to find the right therapist who can help you learn more about your anxiety, pick the most effective type of therapy, and work through those methods to reduce your anxiety. It’s not always easy to talk with a therapist about anxiety, so you need to make sure you find the best fit.
To connect with the right therapist, you want to have some criteria that can help narrow down your options. You should search for someone who specializes in anxiety. If you already know the type of anxiety disorder you struggle with, make sure they mention that specific type of anxiety. You also want to make sure they offer the evidence-based type of therapy you are interested in, or offer several of those options.
Part of your criteria could include any demographics preferences (race, gender, age, etc.) and ensuring that they accept your insurance.
Finding the right therapist is easier than you think. A great place to start is reaching out to your insurance company directly. They can give you a list of providers who are in-network and accept your insurance. You can also do a Google or AI search for quality therapists in your area who work with anxiety. The quickest way to find a therapist and have the most control over your choices is using therapist directories such as Headway. They offer filters that can help you pare down to the right therapist for you. And remember, sometimes finding the right fit takes a bit of trial and error, but deciding you want support in the first place is the biggest step!
Research offers guidance on the best options for anxiety therapy, and tools like Headway’s therapist directory can help you filter your way to the most effective anxiety support.
This clarity can help you take your first step. Even a simple search in the directory is a move toward the right therapist and a life less controlled by anxiety.
This content is for general informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical, legal, financial, or professional advice. All decisions should be made at the discretion of the individual or organization, in consultation with qualified clinical, legal, or other appropriate professionals.
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